You know... I've caught myself doing the same thing. Somehow, i'll start thinking about Harmony... and get mad. Like people here sad, its just such a waste. Such a connection, such chemistry, trust, undersanding and communication. And all of that, so Harry can find his soulmate in Ginny of all people. And don't get me started on R/Hr...
Only thing I'm confused abut is JKR's wish for her daughters... She said that she wishes they grow up to be Hermiones... which apparently means finding the completely stupidly, insensitive guy who has no respect for you.
It's just sad.
Once again, if Hermione was real, i'd steal her from Ron. It wouldn't even be hard