Harmione2004
Jan 15 2005, 05:47 PM
I wont get mad if Harry admits it first, or if it's Hermione. Just as long as they fall in love.
Mystic Knight
Jan 15 2005, 08:19 PM
QUOTE(Harmione2004 @ Jan 16 2005, 01:47 AM)
I wont get mad if Harry admits it first, or if it's Hermione. Just as long as they fall in love.

Yeah. It will be a very beautiful thing when it happens. If anyone can properly pull it off it is JKR.
tasty_pork
Jan 15 2005, 08:35 PM
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| If anything, I'd rather have them admit their feelings in an unspoken manner, following along the lines of the powerful unspoken bond that exist between them. |
Amen, and I can see it happening. It's an even split for who could work up the courage to say something first. Their level of understanding goes beyond words; words will just clarify it later. Gradually they may just come to realise it, then act upon it.. You never know..
| QUOTE |
| I wont get mad if Harry admits it first, or if it's Hermione. Just as long as they fall in love |
Hear, hear! It's just a matter of time..
mz.blu
Jan 17 2005, 07:05 PM
I voted for Hermione, but in all honesty I think that there will be no confession just a shift in things, and they will kiss
afterthought- I dont care who says it as long as it gets said hmph
JBaker
Jan 17 2005, 07:07 PM
| QUOTE (mz.blu @ Jan 18 2005, 03:05 AM) |
I voted for Hermione, but in all honesty I think that there will be no confession just a shift in things, and they will kiss |
Would they really need to exchange words though? I doubt they would.
Harry was noted to be able to see the shift in Hermione's eyes when she becomes passionate about something like House Elves, so I think they'll come to the realisation but won't say any words.
BTW forgive mine good spelling and gramma english
Harmione2004
Jan 17 2005, 07:33 PM
| QUOTE (JBaker @ Jan 18 2005, 03:07 AM) |
| QUOTE (mz.blu @ Jan 18 2005, 03:05 AM) | I voted for Hermione, but in all honesty I think that there will be no confession just a shift in things, and they will kiss |
Would they really need to exchange words though? I doubt they would. Harry was noted to be able to see the shift in Hermione's eyes when she becomes passionate about something like House Elves, so I think they'll come to the realisation but won't say any words. BTW forgive mine good spelling and gramma english |
Well, maybe neither will confess. Maybe the whole series will end with them kissng and that will be their confession to one another.
Wishful thinking I know
michelle
Jan 17 2005, 07:48 PM
i think it'll be harry coz... i think hermione already liked harry for quite some time and yet she hasn't made the first move... so i dun think she'll change and admit her feelings so easily...
JBaker
Jan 17 2005, 08:40 PM
| QUOTE (Harmione2004 @ Jan 18 2005, 03:33 AM) |
| QUOTE (JBaker @ Jan 18 2005, 03:07 AM) | | QUOTE (mz.blu @ Jan 18 2005, 03:05 AM) | I voted for Hermione, but in all honesty I think that there will be no confession just a shift in things, and they will kiss |
Would they really need to exchange words though? I doubt they would. Harry was noted to be able to see the shift in Hermione's eyes when she becomes passionate about something like House Elves, so I think they'll come to the realisation but won't say any words. BTW forgive mine good spelling and gramma english |
Well, maybe neither will confess. Maybe the whole series will end with them kissng and that will be their confession to one another. Wishful thinking I know |
I doubt that we'll have to wait until the end for the revelation, I think we'll see it in HBP, maybe not in words, but in actions.
Harmione2004
Jan 17 2005, 08:45 PM
As far as finding out who will fall in love with who, I have no doubt we'll find out in HBP. But for the actual relationship, well, maybe no one will declare their love untill the very end of the series.
Neige
Jan 17 2005, 08:52 PM
| QUOTE (JBaker @ Jan 18 2005, 03:07 AM) |
BTW forgive mine good spelling and gramma english |
You are forgiven
On topic - I have voted Hermione, but I have this growing feeling that Harry will be the first one to do something about it. We've seen how Hermione will do everything to protect Harry, and she certainly wouldn't want to bother him with something like
that... Meaning she would be afraid to make him feel uneasy and all - and of course being rejected...
I'm stuck in the middle... can't make up my mind really lol
But still, Harry has no such 'barriers'(if I may say so) if he wants to do something about his love for her, when he finally comes to a realisation.
We will see what happens - and I have a feeling it will be sooner than we thought
JBaker
Jan 17 2005, 11:52 PM
| QUOTE (Neige @ Jan 18 2005, 04:52 AM) |
| QUOTE (JBaker @ Jan 18 2005, 03:07 AM) | BTW forgive mine good spelling and gramma english |
You are forgiven On topic - I have voted Hermione, but I have this growing feeling that Harry will be the first one to do something about it. We've seen how Hermione will do everything to protect Harry, and she certainly wouldn't want to bother him with something like that... Meaning she would be afraid to make him feel uneasy and all - and of course being rejected... I'm stuck in the middle... can't make up my mind really lol But still, Harry has no such 'barriers'(if I may say so) if he wants to do something about his love for her, when he finally comes to a realisation. We will see what happens - and I have a feeling it will be sooner than we thought |
Thankyou for forgiving me
That is an interesting point you brough up regarding barriers. Wouldn't the prophecy and Ron's possible feelings act as barriers to Harry, assuming that Ron does have feelings and that Harry knows about them?
Neige
Jan 18 2005, 08:02 AM
| QUOTE (JBaker @ Jan 18 2005, 02:52 AM) |
Thankyou for forgiving me
That is an interesting point you brough up regarding barriers. Wouldn't the prophecy and Ron's possible feelings act as barriers to Harry, assuming that Ron does have feelings and that Harry knows about them? |
This is actually one of the biggest reasons why I'm "on the fence" concerning this particular topic. The Prophecy I mean. Because I don't know if Harry has noticed Ron's crush on Hermione... Nor if this crush will still be there in HBP. IMO, by the end of OotP it had pretty much faded away. But if that's not the case, just think how clueless can Harry be sometimes(most of the time).
As for the Prophecy, I don't know. If(when) Harry does realise his feelings for her in the next book(probably near the beginning, or at least, in the first half), he'll probably have too much on his mind to act on them.
That's why I can just see Harry and Hermione talking about the Prophecy, sitting far from everyone else, by the lake, Harry saying silly things and Hermione conforting him... and in the end they just kiss...
It just... happens...
Honestly, there are so many factors to consider here that I can't make a choice
TheViking
Jan 18 2005, 08:11 AM
I voted for Harry. Harry is more a man of emotions and a man of action than Hermione. He was not so towards Cho, but he probably never really believed in it anyway.
If he get feelings for Hermione, he will act. Hermione may avoid the issue.
Harmione2004
Jan 18 2005, 09:50 AM
| QUOTE (TheViking @ Jan 18 2005, 04:11 PM) |
I voted for Harry. Harry is more a man of emotions and a man of action than Hermione. He was not so towards Cho, but he probably never really believed in it anyway.
If he get feelings for Hermione, he will act. Hermione may avoid the issue. |
That does make a lot of sense. Hermione might worry that he doesn't feel the same so she may not say anything. But Harry being Harry, will probably do something to get what he wants.
pattysanti
Jan 18 2005, 11:14 AM
OK this is my take, I think is going to be Hermione, she is the one who always initiate any physical contact with Harry, I think is going to be in the last book, he is leaving to fight Voldy and that is when she will throw herself to him and give him a good bye kiss on the lips (while crying and feeling scare for Harry’s life)
Mystic Knight
Jan 18 2005, 07:03 PM
Speaking of the prophecy, I can't help but wonder how Hermione will react upon hearing it, and how this will initially impact the bond that they have. Maybe that event will be what sets off their feelings. I still think that however it comes about, it will be unspoken.
Harmione2004
Jan 18 2005, 07:07 PM
| QUOTE (Mystic Knight @ Jan 19 2005, 03:03 AM) |
Speaking of the prophecy, I can't help but wonder how Hermione will react upon hearing it, and how this will initially impact the bond that they have. Maybe that event will be what sets off their feelings. I still think that however it comes about, it will be unspoken. |
She'll probably be devestated. She'll be very emotional imo.
I'm okay if it's unspoken. As long as they fall in love.
Mystic Knight
Jan 18 2005, 07:25 PM
| QUOTE (Harmione2004 @ Jan 19 2005, 03:07 AM) |
| QUOTE (Mystic Knight @ Jan 19 2005, 03:03 AM) | Speaking of the prophecy, I can't help but wonder how Hermione will react upon hearing it, and how this will initially impact the bond that they have. Maybe that event will be what sets off their feelings. I still think that however it comes about, it will be unspoken. |
She'll probably be devestated. She'll be very emotional imo. I'm okay if it's unspoken. As long as they fall in love.
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It might just take such a shock to begin to get such things into the open.
I imagine that if he tells her while they are alone, we could have the makings of a very dramatic scene. Who knows, one thing might lead to another, and we might just end up with our unspoken confession.
The possibilities of how it will play out are almost endless, but I'll live with whatever JKR has got cooking.
tweetyburrow
Jan 21 2005, 07:47 AM
It's not a favorite choice, but i think Harry will confessed first. My instinct tell me after the incident at DoM, Harry may see Hermione with a different light. He's also the main character here.
Mirtilla
Jan 26 2005, 07:33 AM
Mod Note Hi guys, just wanted to inform you all that I've added a poll to this thread so that you can still vote who's going to admit their feelings first. Happy Posting
. ~Mirtilla
smuggled_muggle
Jan 26 2005, 08:46 AM
I voted Hermione. I can definitely see her getting fed up with Harry's cluelessness about all the hints she's been dropping since the end of GoF. I can see her saying something like "Just what would it take for you to get a clue, Harry?!? I've kissed you, I've hugged you so hard you couldn't breathe, I've started an illegal school organisation for you, I've arranged a meeting with the Icky Skeeter woman and that crazy Luna Lovegood so you could clear your name, I've lied to a Hogwarts High Inquisitor and Headmistress to save you from Crucio, I've ignored the only boy who's ever been interested in me just so I could cheer you on, heck, I've even agreed to go on a crazy rescue mission to the Ministry of Magic even though I didn't believe that Sirius needed rescuing!!! So what would it take, Harry? And if you don't come up with a satisfactory answer in the next 3 minutes, I'll hit you so hard, the slap I gave Malfoy in 3rd year will seem like a gentle pat on the cheek."

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Shelly_Bell
Jan 26 2005, 10:00 AM
So true
Smuggled_Muggle so true!

I think Hermione will most definitely be the one to crack first. She's very dominant and has no problems voicing her opinions. I think deep down she wants to be treated like a girl just like everyone else so she will give Harry his chance. She knows what she wants though and her patience is thin. So in the end I think she'll have to knock some sense into him (figuratively or literally I have yet to decide!)
Hermione's Twin
Jan 27 2005, 08:37 AM
I'm going to have to say Harry here for a couple reasons. First, Hermione is self-conscious. Why do you think she strives to do so well in school? She looks for acceptance and the only she'd ever admit her feelings (especially romantic feelings) to someone is if she knew, without a doubt, that they felt the same. The only way she would know without doubting is if Harry speaks up.
Being self-conscious brings me to point number two: she's patient. Now, she's not patient enough to put her love life on hold for Harry forever, but she's patient enough to see if he'll admit his feelings first. Hermione's not a big risk taker, and I bet that would go double for risking her heart.
Basically, we all need to have Hermione's patience and wait until Harry has his romantic epiphany.

Jennifer
Moony Jr.
Jan 27 2005, 11:35 AM
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"Just what would it take for you to get a clue, Harry?!? I've kissed you, I've hugged you so hard you couldn't breathe, I've started an illegal school organisation for you, I've arranged a meeting with the Icky Skeeter woman and that crazy Luna Lovegood so you could clear your name, I've lied to a Hogwarts High Inquisitor and Headmistress to save you from Crucio, I've ignored the only boy who's ever been interested in me just so I could cheer you on, heck, I've even agreed to go on a crazy rescue mission to the Ministry of Magic even though I didn't believe that Sirius needed rescuing!!! So what would it take, Harry? And if you don't come up with a satisfactory answer in the next 3 minutes, I'll hit you so hard, the slap I gave Malfoy in 3rd year will seem like a gentle pat on the cheek." )
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HAHA!! That is priceless
smuggled_muggle. I can somehow seeing her do that if my vote ends up being wrong.....
Which means I voted for Harry.
Hermione's Twin brings up some good points for why Hermione wouldn't do it but I think Harry might do it for a couple of reasons himself...
1. The near-death of Hermione at the Department of Mysteries. While she didn't die after all, I would be supremely shocked if we didn't see some time at the beginning of HBP where Harry starts piling more guilt on top of himself with the thought of Hermione possibly dying and it being his fault. This could then lead to his realization of his feelings for Hermione and him being the first to admit the feelings.
2. I wouldn't be shocked to see another outsider pointing to the relationship Harry and Hermione already share. Maybe a third person following in the footsteps of Krum and Cho would force Harry to look at what he has with Hermione. It was Harry that this issue was put on by Cho and Krum. Krum came to Harry about Hermione and Cho got jealous of Hermione right there in front of Harry. A third person putting this in his face might get him to sit down and figure out what he really has with Hermione.

3. Someone else might go out with Hermione first which leads to Harry starting to see Hermione differently. I liked this idea at first but it has started to seem a bit soap opera-ish. Anyways though, I think it still stands a chance since a very possible scenario would be R/Hr happening and then it ends up wih Harry and Hermione together in the end.
I think there were a couple other scenarios popping through my head but my mind just went blank so I will leave it at that and say, like others before me, it don't matter who does it so as long as they end up together.
Pamina
Jan 27 2005, 02:36 PM
I voted for Harry, but that is more wishful thinking than anything else. I think it would be nice to see Harry be somewhat proactive on the love scene. His passiveness with Cho almost annoyed me, although I did not want to see them together.
Maybe for his own self-esteem he would have to be a bit more of a go-getter next time.... Awwwww....

(losing myself in the imagery)
Mystic Knight
Jan 27 2005, 03:48 PM
I hate trying to decide..
I'm going with Harry then, but I'm sticking by my silent confession of love theory.
His actions always speak louder than this words anyway.
BlueAngel79
Jan 27 2005, 06:10 PM
| QUOTE |
. I wouldn't be shocked to see another outsider pointing to the relationship Harry and Hermione already share. Maybe a third person following in the footsteps of Krum and Cho would force Harry to look at what he has with Hermione. It was Harry that this issue was put on by Cho and Krum. Krum came to Harry about Hermione and Cho got jealous of Hermione right there in front of Harry. A third person putting this in his face might get him to sit down and figure out what he really has with Hermione.
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I've thought of one person, who surprised us with thought-provoking insights on death without so much emotion but a calm, almost dreamlike, expression, who could ease a troubled heart and mind like Harry's. Without the symbolism hinted through Hermione's connection with Harry's glasses ( needing her to see things more clearly ), it's Luna's seemingly high EQ, by giving him another 'talk' similar to that towards the end of OotP, may just do the trick to make Harry reevaluate his relationship with Hermione. All that third person has to do is tell him WHERE to start and surely, his heart will lead him to the right direction.
Harry/Hermione 4eva
Jan 28 2005, 06:30 AM
I'm kinda thinking Harry will figure it out first, but then he'll get all hero-y on us and refuse to admit his feelings to her, or anyone else for that matter. So he'll be there, pining away for our dear ickle heroine until Hermione realises that she loves him too, and she'll admit it... eventually.
So yeah, Harry will realise first, but Hermione will say it out loud first.
No idea why... just a feeling I think.

| QUOTE (smuggled_muggle) |
| "Just what would it take for you to get a clue, Harry?!? I've kissed you, I've hugged you so hard you couldn't breathe, I've started an illegal school organisation for you, I've arranged a meeting with the Icky Skeeter woman and that crazy Luna Lovegood so you could clear your name, I've lied to a Hogwarts High Inquisitor and Headmistress to save you from Crucio, I've ignored the only boy who's ever been interested in me just so I could cheer you on, heck, I've even agreed to go on a crazy rescue mission to the Ministry of Magic even though I didn't believe that Sirius needed rescuing!!! So what would it take, Harry? And if you don't come up with a satisfactory answer in the next 3 minutes, I'll hit you so hard, the slap I gave Malfoy in 3rd year will seem like a gentle pat on the cheek." |
*Falls off chair laughing sooo hard* That is so something Hermione would say if she got a little ticked off... Hahah! Very cool!

~Bec
Austenlover
Jan 28 2005, 07:42 AM
| QUOTE (smuggled_muggle @ Jan 26 2005, 11:46 AM) |
I can see her saying something like "Just what would it take for you to get a clue, Harry?!? I've kissed you, I've hugged you so hard you couldn't breathe, I've started an illegal school organisation for you, I've arranged a meeting with the Icky Skeeter woman and that crazy Luna Lovegood so you could clear your name, I've lied to a Hogwarts High Inquisitor and Headmistress to save you from Crucio, I've ignored the only boy who's ever been interested in me just so I could cheer you on, heck, I've even agreed to go on a crazy rescue mission to the Ministry of Magic even though I didn't believe that Sirius needed rescuing!!! So what would it take, Harry? And if you don't come up with a satisfactory answer in the next 3 minutes, I'll hit you so hard, the slap I gave Malfoy in 3rd year will seem like a gentle pat on the cheek." ) |
OMG, Smuggled_Muggle, that was hilarious. ROFLMAO. I can definitely see her doing that.

harry is just so clueless, it needs something like that for him to finally notice her.
Nora
Jan 28 2005, 08:59 AM
I don't think anyone will admit anything. My guess is that it'll all happen through a kiss and that's when both know that there's nothing more to be 'said'.
About the prophecy: I've been wrecking my brain 'cuz of that one, too. I can see a million ways in which Hermione will react.
1.) she'll be in complete denial and just won't believe it since it's Trelawny's prophecy after all
2.) she'll break down crying
3.) she'll try to act tough for Harry and keep it together
But no matter what her immediate reaction will be, one thing is pretty certain: she won't leave Harry's side.
Rachel Lupin
Jan 28 2005, 03:16 PM
I hated to pick, but I settled on Harry. I think that Hermione would not want to give him something else to worry about by telling him how she feels. Although I would rather see them just figure things out with out words. One of the things I like best about Harry and Hermione's relationship is their ablity to communicate without words. Why wouldn't they do the same thing with the most important thing?
Moonstruck
Jan 28 2005, 03:25 PM
| QUOTE (Nora @ Jan 28 2005, 11:59 AM) |
About the prophecy: I've been wrecking my brain 'cuz of that one, too. I can see a million ways in which Hermione will react.
1.) she'll be in complete denial and just won't believe it since it's Trelawny's prophecy after all
2.) she'll break down crying
3.) she'll try to act tough for Harry and keep it together
But no matter what her immediate reaction will be, one thing is pretty certain: she won't leave Harry's side. |
I think that the prophecy will be the breaking point for Hermione to admit she loves Harry. I believe that she'll find that this is something she can't help Harry with. She can't look up a spell for Harry for him to use this time (that we know of). After Hermione has exhasted the library (

), she'll admit her love.
Mystic Knight
Jan 28 2005, 03:33 PM
| QUOTE (Moonstruck @ Jan 28 2005, 11:25 PM) |
| QUOTE (Nora @ Jan 28 2005, 11:59 AM) | About the prophecy: I've been wrecking my brain 'cuz of that one, too. I can see a million ways in which Hermione will react.
1.) she'll be in complete denial and just won't believe it since it's Trelawny's prophecy after all
2.) she'll break down crying
3.) she'll try to act tough for Harry and keep it together
But no matter what her immediate reaction will be, one thing is pretty certain: she won't leave Harry's side. |
I think that the prophecy will be the breaking point for Hermione to admit she loves Harry. I believe that she'll find that this is something she can't help Harry with. She can't look up a spell for Harry for him to use this time (that we know of). After Hermione has exhasted the library (  ), she'll admit her love. |
Hmm. Good point
Moonstruck. I can kind of see her throwing herself onto Harry at that point. I also think Harry will reciprocate her feelings. The act itself will say more than any words.
Kath
Jan 28 2005, 05:13 PM
It's tough to pick, it really is. But, as has already been discussed, assuming it is spoken, I voted for Harry.
One one hand, I can't see Harry saying it first, for so many reasons. And yet I voted for him for one simple reason - I believe Hermione already knows how she feels about him, and she's yet to say anything. Seeing as we know Harry doesn't know how he feels yet, that's one of the reasons he can't have spoken up yet. Hermione's reasons, assuming I'm right, go deeper than that, and whilst it's an absolute given that she'll do and risk anything and everything for Harry, I'm not sure she's willing to risk her heart or their friendship. At least not yet. So I think Harry will be first to speak up, when he realises.
I hope that made sense
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